This will help when you have good friends that you can stay with for a while until you get on your feet. But before you do, it would be a good idea to sit down in a calm space, take out a pen and paper or your computer, and do some serious planning. You have to rally the troops when youre going through a marriage crisis. Your marriage is at the endpoint and you are giving careful consideration to leaving your husband.
It is especially important now to pay attention to your own needs and take action on your own behalf. Leaving your husband even when there is nothing good left in your relationship is extremely challenging. Talk to a lawyer and learn about alimony. And, it takes a long time to heal from a marriage crisis whether you divorce your husband or work hard to save your marriage.